Esilanna,
Happy Tenth Birthday honey! Daddy is thinking about you always. I love you and miss you! I hope and pray that you have a wonderful birthday!
Love, Daddy.
I posted a few exchanges yesterday online because it seemed like the general mood of society took at three point dip temporarily. Might have been the star alignments, the oil spill, or some other proximate cause but I offered up this advice:
"I think that we should all live our dreams and only we can make those dreams happen! So many times we find ourselves waiting for something to happen instead of being the force to make it happen. It might not be easy, it might not be quick, but I tell you we can all make it happen if we really want to."
I guess my problem with so many people is that they withdraw, let depression hit becoming unproductive, or just isolate in general to one single issue to the destruction of everything else around them. Take a step back and start with your own community and find a local community calendar and then get out and start to do things. Reconnect with friends. Reconnect with family. You would be surprised how many people you can really help just by being out in the public sharing ways to make things better. Advocacy efforts can really only be successful if your advocacy focuses on truly building better communities. Better communities, better education, better interaction. It's like a speech I gave years ago at the Flint City Council Meeting... "individuals come together to make families, families come together to make neighborhoods and communities, and neighborhoods come together for their government." If any of those links are weak everything that comes after them will be flawed or weak too.
Let's build healthy communities to solve the problems that are plaguing society. It will be more fun.
I had always shared with people that the best day in life since the age of 18 was July 2nd for me. The thing is, many people have a special date because they think it is magic or just their lucky day. The second of July is a day of personal growth every year and a day of decision-making and goal-setting for me. The main point is... luck, magic, etc. has nothing to do with the day... It's a day that I personally choose to be special and enjoy doing so.
Over the past many years, life has been slow and many changes have taken hold. Not what I originally planned, but life is getting more enjoyable and even more changes are taking hold because I am making them. I have gone back to my roots and discovered that so many people are having a hard time coping with their circumstances, whether it is divorce, child-custody, or just being a victim about everything happening in their life. I might have forgotten for a minute that my strongest skill is problem-solving no matter what the problem is. Too many people get caught up in their past that prevents them from reaching success in their future. I am using my skills to build some pretty amazing things lately.
So my personal blog is changing soon and reflecting some of the very enjoyable things that I am doing mixed with an occasional opinion piece with a positive twist. So as we go into this Independence Day weekend, enjoy a parade in your hometown, enjoy the holiday reaching out to friends, and most of all enjoy who you are becoming. Independence Day can be taken a few different ways, in the political sense or the personal choice sense. We are all masters of our future so my independence comes with defining the future.
So every year about this time I have a small black book that was given to me as a gift that I take a peek into. Hand-written quotes, flip through some of the pages and see what sticks with me:
"Missing someone gets easier everyday because even though you are one day further from the last time you saw them, you are one day closer to the next time you will" -Unknown.
"In order for you to insult me, I must first value your opinion." -Unknown.
"Grow old along with me. The best is yet to be." -Rabbi Benezra
It is a great year so far and getting better. I dedicate my life to succeeding for my children, my family, and my community. That is how we begin to maintain freedom if we are to "lead by example" in our communities. Insert any series of events in your past and you can make it through the dim times by taking the best things from your past as tools for a brighter positive future. You don't have to take the negative with you. Now, I'm going to go finish my cup of coffee on the deck this morning and finish watching the sun come up and watch the blog for some of the fun that I am seriously about to have.
Well son, you just made it to eleven years old today, I think of you each and every day. Happy Eleventh Birthday today Lary! You are in my heart and always on my mind. Big hugs and kisses to you today. I miss you.
The Family Court System has its' fair share of problems, but one of those problems that has not had a very thorough review is that it is an ever-increasing "Deadly Business." In fact, I didn't even start thinking about the effects of our country's public policies regarding single-parent custody awards and "unilateral divorce" until my recent involvement and trip in Frederick, Maryland. For the most part, I only looked at the effects inside the courtroom specifically, not outside.
The way that divorces, child custody, parenting time, child support, and legal separation issues are "settled" in the United States seems to exacerbate the conflict rather than resolve the conflict between litigants that have a child in common. In the United States there are a super-majority of cases involving minor children that appear on adversarial dockets as opposed to alternative dispute resolution dockets. Parents on both sides of the gender issue seem to be frustrated to the point of extreme violence during or after adversarial proceedings involving their minor children.
According to US Department of Justice, reported by the Institute of American Values in Research Brief 12 Commissioned by the National Fatherhood Initiative supported by Grant No.
2006-DD-BX-K003:
Consequently, more than one million U.S. children experience
parental divorce each year. The growing number of divorces has profound
implications for children, mothers, fathers, and society.
There should be substantial concern over the instant murder-suicides, premeditated murders, attempted murders, murders-for-hire, and drastic number of suicides that are occurring in families that are involved with domestic relation suits or family courts around the nation.
In Frederick Maryland, several families over a six month period of time were reported as having ongoing child custody disputes that resulted in death. There are other reports of attempts at murder-for-hire and attempted murders as well. The most recent eye-opener which drew my attention regarding the Thanksgiving Holiday "massacre" that occurred in Frederick County, Maryland is what prompted me to start searching out other occurrences. Information was indeed easy to find and too numerous to list all of the occurrences.
"On Thanksgiving night, police found five dead bodies in the town of Laytonsville, Maryland at 1.5 acre Unity Park. It is believed to have been a murder-suicide with a domestic related motive. Laytonsville, Maryland is a small town that is located about twenty-five miles away from Washington." (Thanksgiving Murder-Suicide in Laytonsville, Maryland; Associated Content, November 24, 2007)
"A man shot and killed his ex-wife, their three children and himself in a small-town park where they had met for the woman to hand over the youngsters for a visit, investigators said Friday." (Police: 5 Dead in Murder-Suicide in Md; Associated Press, November 23, 2007)
The above is not the first of these type of murder-suicides in the Frederick County, Maryland area. The above Associated Press article also reported in the same article that:
"In April, a father hanged his two young children before committing suicide in rural Boyds, in Montgomery County. In March, the remains of four young children were found in a town house in neighboring Frederick. The father's body was found hanging from a bannister, and the mother remains missing."
"There is a trend that demonstrates that custody and family court litigation has dire consequences when allowed to continue as adversarial proceedings. One party often finds themselves at the tail-end of a powerstruggle that results in a level of hopelessness. When someone feels that they have nothing else to lose, they can become unpredictable," states Lary Holland, Host of Get Your Justice Live and author of this document.
Looking through the various newspapers there are demonstratively a large number of articles that support that ongoing adversarial child custody disputes are resulting in disastrous conseqences. Pro Wresler, Chris Benoit, is one of those cases that resulted in a murder-suicide, along with the high-profile case of Darren Mack who was involved in the shooting of a family court judge and the slaying of his ex-wife.
Annie Gowen of the Washington Post on February 20, 2002 in her article, Custody Battle Probed in Double Slaying:
In the cold pre-dawn hours Friday, Alan G. Bates left his Frederick town house to fly to Birmingham for a deposition in a bitter child custody battle with his ex-wife.
Later, in Birmingham, Bates and his ex-wife, Jessica McCord, faced off over a conference table in a downtown law office.
Bates had planned to pick up his two daughters for the weekend that night. Instead, his body and the body of a woman [were discovered].
Nelson Hernandez also of the Washington Post on September 28, 1005 in his article, 2nd Trial of Lawyer Accused in Plot to Kill Husband Opens; Prosecutors Cite Lost Custody Battle states:
The Bethesda lawyer accused of conspiring with her best friend to kill her estranged husband as a way of resolving a bitter child custody battle went on trial in Frederick County yesterday, nine months after Maryland's highest court threw out her conviction by a Montgomery County jury.
The Wichita Eagle on April 4, 2003 reported in the article Child Custody At Heart of Murder-Suicide that:
When Eric Leckenby confronted his girlfriend's ex-husband with a gun Wednesday, he had already decided neither man would leave alive.
The Miami Herald reported on December 5, 2007 in an article entitled Tragic Couple Went to BSO Before Dying, "A Weston man and his wife visited the Broward Sheriff's Office the day before they perished in a murder-suicide" and further stated that:
"Her husband, Frank, was with her and, according to the BSO report, they were there to discuss ''a child custody'' dispute.
The BSO log, obtained by The Miami Herald, indicates the couple, who were in the midst of a bitter divorce, arrived about 5:30 p.m. and stayed in the lobby of BSO's Weston office for 45 minutes."
The Fresno Bee reported on December 4, 2007 in an article carrying the title Dead Couple Fought Over Custody, "Pair in Tulare murder-suicide sought court orderes" and further stated that:
"TULARE -- A bitter dispute over custody of a 17-month-old daughter may have factored into a late-night murder-suicide in a dark cemetery."
Some of the most recent deaths also have occured in Michigan, where two families in as many weeks have had custody disputes surrounding plots to murder other family members. "The issue of post custody hearing slayings goes beyond the simple issue of domestic violence and is indicative of a larger problem with the system itself," states Holland.
The Kalamazoo Gazette on December 12, 2007 in the first line of the story titled Custody may be linked to killing of woman states as follows:
"PULLMAN -- Investigators believe the death of a 19-year-old woman Tuesday at a house in Allegan County's Casco Township may have been linked to an ongoing child-custody issue, police said."
Other papers covering the aforementioned story in Alleghan county slated the story as being the second tragic incident in the past week, which should raise significant pressures on the local family court to explain what some of the possible factors are in the most recent tragedies. One of the tragedies involved an ex-wife allegedly using her current husband to kill her ex-husband which was widely reported in Western Michigan.
Similar plots and outcomes were involved in at least four known cases of domestic dispute slayings in the past year around Michigan involving Pro Wrestler Chris Benoit, a mutilation story, and now the two Alleghan incidents.
Given that the divorce rate is certainly not on the decline and no expectation of a decline over couples fighting over money, power, and children in the future, there should be a reasonable prediction that there are more tragedies to come. "A serious review of the family courts nationwide should be placed as a high priority when selecting candidates for the upcoming election because the current social institution has definitely failed the families listed in this article," states Holland.
For more information about Lary Holland, visit his website at http://www.laryholland.com.
You can contact him at 517-325-3789 for further comment.
UPDATED (2-11-2008) Stories Continue to come in and will be updated under this topic line.
The authorities say he killed her - perhaps by choking her -- to end an acrimonious divorce and child custody battle. (Last Prosecution Witness to Take Stand in Hans Reiser Murder Trial; Defense to Get Case, February 11, 2008, Wired Blog Network)
UPDATED (2-12-2008) Closing Arguments in Ex-Officer's Trial: More Family Court Death
CANTON, Ohio (AP) — A former police officer intentionally killed his pregnant lover to get out of child support payments, a prosecutor told jurors during his closing argument Tuesday. (Closing Arguments in Ex-Officer's Trial; Associated Press, February 12, 2008)
UPDATED (3-18-2008) Geary man accused of attempted murder-for-hire.
CALUMET, Okla. (AP) - A Geary man is behind bars after authorities say he tried to hire someone to kill his wife and her parents.
David Phillips was arrested outside a Calumet restaurant Sunday after the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation monitored a conversation between him and a private investigator he hired during a child custody battle with his wife. (Geary man accused of attempted murder-for-hire; Associated Press; March 18, 2008 Orig.)
UPDATED (3-11-2008) Wife Stabs Husband in Phoenix during talk about divorce
A Phoenix woman stabbed her husband with a knife then pepper sprayed him on Monday during an argument about divorce proceedings. (Wife stabs husband in Phoneix during talk about divorce; March 11, 2008 Orig)
UPDATED (3-19-2008) Father and son, 10, dead in apparent murder-suicide
FORT STEVENS STATE PARK, Ore. - Clatsop County officials are investigating an apparent murder-suicide involving a Portland man and his 10-year-old son.
Investigators say the father, 49-year-old Rockland Stephens, ran a hose from the tail pipe into the cab of the vehicle. They said the man and boy both likely died of carbon monoxide poisoning.
The deaths reportedly come shortly after events connected to a child custody battle. (Father and son, 10, dead in apparent murder-suicide; Katu.Com; March 19, 2008 Orig)
UPDATED (3-29-2008) Clark County man sentence Friday to more than 53 years in prison
A Clark County man was sentenced Friday to more than 53 years in prison for offering to pay four men to beat or kill his estranged wife last year during contentious divorce and child custody proceedings. (Reported in the Oregonian. March 29, 2008. Link not available.)
UPDATED (6-29-2008) Shooter kills 2, self in Cambria Township
EBENSBURG — A child-custody dispute led to an exchange of gunfire between a divorced couple and ended in a double murder and suicide.
Cambria Township police were dispatched just before 3 a.m. Sunday to the 1200 block of Allie Buck Road in Cambria Township after reports of a break-in.
Instead, they found themselves in a standoff with David Gerlach, 42, of Ebensburg.
Gerlach allegedly became agitated late Saturday or early Sunday with his ex-wife, Debra Gerlach, 41, who was living in the Cambria Township residence, which was in the process of being sold.
According to Cambria County Coroner Dennis Kwiatkowski, David Gerlach went to the residence with his handgun.
"There were two guns in the residence,” Kwiatkowski said. “One was Debra’s and one was the shooter’s. They exchanged gunfire at some point.” (Shooter Kills 2, self in Cambria Township; The Tribune-Democrat; June 29, 2008 Orig.)
UPDATED: (7-07-2008) Convicted Husband leads Calif. Police to a body (ReiserFS inventor convicted of killing as a result of adversarial child custody proceedings.)
OAKLAND, Calif. (AP) — A prominent software programmer who had denied having anything to do with his estranged wife's disappearance even after he was convicted of her murder led police Monday to what is believed to be her body, defense attorneys said.
The two were involved in a bitter custody dispute, traces of her blood were found in his home and car and witnesses testified she would never have left her children. (Convicted Husband leads Calif. Police to a body; Associated Press; July 7, 2008; Orig)
UPDATED: (7-07-2008) Police hunt man accused of shooting estranged wife
PORTOLA HILLS - The couple had hostile encounters when exchanging custody of their 9-year-old son in the past, and on Wednesday eveningauthorities said, 46-year-old Lonnie Ramos grabbed a 9mm and shot his estranged wife in the face.
After she filed for divorce in May 2003, Gynnae Ramos sought to reduce the amount of time that Lonnie Ramos had custody of their son, stating she had been threatened by Ramos and she was afraid he would take out his anger on their child. (Police hunt man accused of shooting estranged wife; OC Register; July 3, 2008 Orig.)
UPDATED: (7-17-2008) Holland martial-arts instructor tried to hire undercover cop as hit man
Police arrested Ung, 42, of Holland, at his school Wednesday night, apparently while students were in the building. Court documents show he tried to hire a man to kill Linda Siripanya, a woman with whom he has battled in court since 2003 over custody of their daughter.
Holland Police would not divulge a motive, but Ottawa Count Circuit Court documents reveal a contentious court struggle between Ung and his former girlfriend, with each firing accusations against the other. Each had tried more than once to get judges to issue personal protection orders against the other, and both claimed threats by the other. (Holland martial-arts instructor tried to hire undercover cop as hit man; Grand Rapids Press; July 17, 2008 Orig.)
UPDATED: (8-5-2008) Richmond Woman Charged in Murder-For-Hire
A Richmond woman who runs an advocacy group for parents in child-custody battles faces two attempted capital murder charges for reportedly arranging a double-killing in a custody battle of her own. (Richmond Woman Charged in Murder-For-Hire; Richmond Times-Dispatch; August 5, 2008 Orig.)
UPDATED: (8-6-2008) Child Custody Trials Can Bring Out the Worst in Parents
So it's with little surprise that I read Tuesday about a woman accused by authorities in Williamsburg-James City County of trying to hire a hit man to kill her ex-boyfriend.
Over a bitter child custody battle. (Child Custody Trials Can Bring Out the Worst in Parents; DailyPress.Com; August 6, 2008; Orig.)
UPDATED: (8-8-2008) Maryville man accused of beating child's 70-year-old grandfather
A custody battle turned violent Monday when a 36-year-old man beat the grandfather of his child, police said.
Brian C. Moad, of 2710 Keebler Road in Maryville, was charged with aggravated battery after police responded to a 911 call Monday morning from the 100 block of Maryknoll Drive.
"When they got there, officers found (the victim) sitting on the street bleeding from the head," Police Chief Rich Scharden said. (Maryville man accused of beating child's 70-year-oldgrandfather; Belleville News Democrat; August 8, 2008; Orig. )
UPDATED: (10-9-2008) Ash Flat Official Pleads Guilty
ASH FLAT — Carolyn Stewart Estes of Ash Flat pleaded guilty this morning to conspiracy to commit capital murder in a negotiated plea deal that lasted only 10 minutes.
According to court documents and information from the negotiated plea, Estes conspired with Gary “Crowbar” Russell in an attempt to cause the death of her ex-husband, Tony Stewart.
Estes talked to Russell for several months, stating “how she would like to have Stewart killed,” and referred to his murder as “Plan B and/or Plan C.” (Ash Flat Official Pleads Guilty; The Batesville Daily Guard; October 9, 2008; Orig. )
UPDATED: (10-29-2008) Deputy Says Woman Wanted Him To Kill
A 28-year-old Sumner woman tried to hire an undercover King County sheriff's deputy last week to kill her daughter's father, the child's stepmother and the child's grandparents, according to a police report filed in King County District Court.
The undercover officer videotaped the solicitation, in which the woman reportedly requested that he either shoot, stab or bludgeon the intended victims. She offered the deputy $500 for the slayings, the police report said.
The deputy got involved in the case after an Arizona man called Auburn police on Oct. 20 to report that his friend had asked him to kill the four people. The man said the woman's anger stemmed from a child-custody agreement, the report said. (Deputy Says Woman Wanted Him To Kill; Seattle Times; October 29,2008; Orig. )
UPDATED: (12-02-2008) Man pleads guilty, receives two life sentences
RANKIN COUNTY (WLBT) - A Rankin County man was sentenced to two life sentences in the shooting death of his stepdaughter and her husband in a 2007 child-custody dispute.
...
The shooting occurred June 7, 2007, as the McGuffees tried to pick up their 10-year-old son, who had been living at Tackett's home. A Hinds County Chancery Judge had given the McGuffee's custody of their child. (Man pleads guilty, receives two life sentences; WLBT 3; December 2, 2008; Orig.)
UPDATED: (12-12-2008) Wakulla County Man Faces Additional Charges in Domestic Related Shooting.
They were in a heated argument about child-custody issues, so Hereford got into her car to leave, he said. But Duncan stopped her by getting into his SUV and causing a head-on collision. Then, he began kicking the doors of her car and walking across the hood. The infant was in the front passenger seat.
Duncan got his rifle and pulled the trigger, but he didn't know the safety was off, he said. Duncan then picked up his daughter, took her inside and put her in the crib. He then tried to give first aid to Hereford while calling 911. The bullet entered the left side of Hereford's head near her upper teeth and shattered, scattering fragments throughout her face. Both her eyes were damaged beyond repair. (Wakulla County Man Faces Additional Charges in Domestic Related Shooting; Tallahassee.Com; December 12, 2008; Orig.)
UPDATED: (12-12-2008) PA Man Pleads Guilty to Plotting to Kill Wife
SCRANTON, Pa.—A northeastern Pennsylvania man has pleaded guilty to federal charges that he plotted to have his former wife killed to avoid paying child support.
Forty-nine-year-old Angelos Dedes pleaded guilty Wednesday to solicitation to commit murder.
Assistant U.S. Attorney John Gurganus Jr. said investigators recorded conversations in which the 49-year-old Pike County resident solicited an undercover FBI agent posing as a hit man to kill his ex-wife, Kelly Dedes, when she went to New York to a wedding. (Pa. Man Pleads Guilty to Plotting to Kill Wife; The Associated Press; December 12, 2008; Orig.)
UPDATED: (12-17-2008) Trying to hire hitman lands Algood woman eight years in jail.
COOKEVILLE -- An Algood woman who tried to hire a hit man to kill her ex-husband was sentenced yesterday to eight years in prison.
Craighead told the Herald-Citizen, "This was a case where the couple had divorced and they had argued over child support payments and child custody. The detective testified that she told the 'hit man' to tell her ex-husband to enjoy Hell and then to kill him. We felt the eight year sentence is an appropriate sentence." (Trying to hire hitman lands Algood woman eight years in jail; December 17, 2008; Orig.)
UPDATED: (5-11-2009) Orlando Nurse Plotted to have ex-wife killed, cops say.
Osceola County, Fl. -- Osceola County Sheriff's deputies on Friday arrested Tommy Lyle Carlton of Orlando on charges of premeditated murder.
Officials said a tip sparked an investigation that showed Carlton, 35, paid an undercover deputy an undisclosed amount of cash to kill his former wife before their child-custody hearing May. 14. (Orlando Sentinel; Orlando Nurse Plotted to have ex-wife killed, cops say; May 11, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (5-26-2009) Kernville man dies after stabbing in child-custody dispute
A Kernville man died Monday night after allegedly being stabbed during a child-custody dispute. (Bakersfield Now Eye Witness News; Kernville man dies after stabbing in child-custody dispute; May 26, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (7-08-2009) Suspect in San Jose murder-suicide lost custody of daughter three months ago
Liang shot and killed his ex-girlfriend Ying He — and then himself — because he was upset over losing custody of their child, San Jose police said their preliminary investigation showed. (Contra Costa Times;Suspect in San Jose murder-suicide lost custody of daughter three months ago; Jul 08, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (7-13-2009) Attorney: Wife played role in husband's death
Their lawsuit, which seeks at least $50,000 in damages, claims Joann Goldstein conspired to have her father, Adriaan Vlot, kill her husband to put an end to a bitter child custody fight she was losing. (Daily Herald;Attorney: Wife played role in husband's death; Jul 13, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (7-23-2009) Mom kills son atop Mt. Diablo, then shoots self
First, Judith Elizabeth Williams took her two cats to the
shelter. Then she brought the family dog to the veterinarian, had it
euthanized, and wrote a suicide note.
Then, investigators say, the 51-year-old Walnut Creek woman got in the
car with her 16-year-old son, Adam Findley Williams, and drove up Mount
Diablo. Near the top of the 3,849-foot peak, at a lookout with
panoramic views of the Bay Area, she shot the teenager to death with a .357 handgun and turned the gun on herself, authorities said Wednesday.
Judith Williams was having custody disagreements with her ex-husband, who had remarried, and was having money problems, said Contra Costa County sheriff's Capt. Dan Terry. Those "were the primary motivating" reasons behind the murder-suicide Friday, he said. (Mom kills son atop Mt. Diablo, then shoots self; SFGATE.COM; July 23, 2009 Orig.)
UPDATED: (9-15-2009) UCI slaying suspect had been ordered to double child support
A UC Irvine graduate student is accused of shooting his ex-wife to death outside on-campus housing Sunday night during a custody exchange of the couple’s 4-year-old son, police announced this morning.
On Thursday, a judge issued a ruling in their divorce case that apparently could have forced Brian Benedict to drop out of school to earn more to pay child support.
“The court finds that the care and maintenance of the child is more
important than the care and maintenance of the father’s schooling,” the
summary of the ruling reads.(OCREGISTER.COM; UCI slaying suspect had been ordered to double child support; Sep 14, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (9-17-2009) Aundre Turner, 44, of Seward, had assaulted his mother. "Angry at his mother over a child custody issue
MOOSE PASS—Sept. 9 at 4:05 p.m., Troopers received a report that Aundre Turner, 44 of Seward, had assaulted his mother. An nvestigation showed that Turner was angry at his mother over a child custody issue and assaulted her. Turner was contacted at his residence and arrested without incident. Turner was remanded into the Seward Jail. (Turnagain Times; Trooper Report; Sep 17, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (9-17-2009) T.O. Father Involved In Murder-Suicide Had Lost Job Recently
A Thousand Oaks man who fatally stabbed his two children before committing suicide was in the midst of a bitter divorce and custody battle and had lost his job two weeks ago, according to authorities and court documents.
No suicide note was found, and detectives could only speculate the killings were related to his recent job loss, custody battle or divorce proceedings, Bonfiglio said. There were no prior law enforcement calls to James Mulvaney’s apartment, and he did not have a criminal record, according to authorities and records. (Ventura County Star; T.O. father involved in murder-suicide had lost job recently; Sep 17, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (10-7-2009) Mistrial in case of dad accused of girl's death
Prosecutors said Brown killed his daughter because he didn't want to pay about $1000.00 in monthly child support. Harris argued the girl slipped and fell 120 feet from Inspiration Point into the Pacific Ocean.
The motive for killing Lauren was threefold, Hum argued. Brown didn't want to pay child support; he sought revenge against the girl's mother, whom he despised and never married; and protested his wife's intention to seek custody of Lauren, Hum said. (Oroville Mercury Register; Mistrial in case of dad accused of girl's death; Oct 05, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (10-23-2009) Doctor hired hit man to kill ex-wife, sheriff says
CENTERVILLE — A Huber Heights family doctor involved in a child custody battle with his ex-wife paid a hit man to kill her, Montgomery County Sheriff Phil Plummer said.(Dayton Daily News; Doctor hired hit man to kill ex-wife, sheriff says; Oct 23, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (10-23-2009) Washington sentenced to 20 years in wife's shooting
WETUMPKA -- A Millbrook man has been sentenced to 20 years in prison for the attempted murder of his wife, whom he shot in the parking lot of a Prattville school about a year ago.
The couple had been going through a divorce and had a child custody hearing a few days before the shooting, records at the Elmore County Courthouse show.
(MontgomeryAdvertiser.Com; Washington sentenced to 20 years in wife's shooting; Oct 28, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (11-03-2009) GRANDFATHER ARRESTED; CHILD CUSTODY MOTIVE FOR MURDER?
Philip Gattuso’s father-in-law was arrested in Oklahoma Monday night, suspected of conspiring to kill his son-in-law in a reported murder-for-hire.
Father-in-law reportedly hired hitman for $3,000 to kill his son-in-law because he didn't like how he was raising child (INFORUM: The Forum of Fargo-Moorhead; Grandfather Arrested; Child Custody Motive for Murder?; Nov 03, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (11-03-2009) Officials Say That a Vendetta Led to Wisconsin Murder-Suicide
A vendetta over a failed relationship apparently led to a murder-suicide over the weekend in Wisconsin, authorities say.
“It is believed that Garcia had a vendetta against the Palm family due to the break-up of the relationship, and also child custody issues,” a news release from the Sheriff’s Department said. “Prior to his suicide, Garcia informed several acquaintances that he was responsible for the death of David Palm, and the arson at the Palm residence.” (Duluth News Tribune; Officials Say that a Vendetta Led to Wisconsin Murder-Suicide; Nov 03, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (11-08-2009) Attorney Arrested in 'cold case' murder
They arrested an attorney at his home in Chula Vista Wednesday on suspicion of shooting two people at Spring Valley Lake near Victorville 20-years ago.
Sheriff’s detectives say a child custody issue motivated Eric Fagan,
now 74, to kill Cathy Paternoster and wound her boyfriend at their
home.
Fagan is a civil attorney. He has written several books including one on Internet dating. (Inland News Today; Attorney Arrested in 'cold case' murder; Nov 08, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (11-07-2009) Murrietta Woman Arrested After Argument Ends in Stabbing
Both Scott and the victim were acquaintances and were at the location to perform a child custody exchange, Flavin said. While at the location an argument ensued and Scott produced the knife and swung it at the victim several times, causing the injuries, Flavin said. The children that were on scene for the exchange were also put in harm’s way while Scott was swinging the knife. (Southwest Riverside News Network; Murrietta Woman Arrested After Argument Ends in Stabbing; Nov 08, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (11-15-2009) Shooting at Apartment Complex Leaves 2 Dead
A man suspected of wielding a shotgun and killing two women at a
Northeast Side apartment Saturday morning remains in custody after he
attempted to flee from authorities.
After the shooting, police said, the suspect took an 8-year-old boy
Strong told
with him and drove to a nearby complex. Authorities added a
child-custody issue might have prompted the shooting.
his father several times that he was having child-custody issues with
the mother. The suspect's father said he thought it was because Strong
wasn't paying child support. (MySA news; Shooting at apartment complex
leaves 2 dead; Nov 15, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (11-17-2009) Greed, divorce battles usually drive spouses to hire hit men
The pretext for any contract killing is generally the same, experts say — greed, infidelity, or a contentious divorce or child custody battle. But the cost and method of the desired execution varies.
Dalia Dippolito is accused of plotting her husband's demise because
She had previously paid an undercover officer $1,200 as a down
she wanted to keep their townhome and about $240,000 cash he had given
her.
payment to shoot her husband twice in the head, according to
police.(Sun Sentinel; Greed, divorce battles usually drive spouses to
hire hit men; Nov 17, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (11-18-2009) Man shoots wife after hiding in her car
A southwest Oregon man shot his wife in the back after hiding in her car while she met with a divorce attorney, authorities said Wednesday.
Travis Kendall, 26, of Myrtle Point, later killed himself after a
confrontation with Coquille Police Chief Mark Dannels, said Coos County
District Attorney R. Paul Frasier. (KOMOnews.Com; Man shoots wife after
hiding in her car; Nov 18, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (12-15-2009) 4 family members found dead in upscale Calif. home
A Houston-area attorney involved in a bitter custody dispute was found fatally shot along with her two young daughters and mother in an apparent murder-suicide after she was ordered to bring the children to a court hearing, authorities said Tuesday.
Fontaine appeared in court Monday morning and was ordered to return with the children later that afternoon, documents show. Authorities responded to the red-roofed, yellow stucco house when they did not show and found a bloody scene: Four bodies, each with one gunshot wound, in a first-floor hallway. (Associated Press; 4 family members found dead in upscale Calif. home; Dec 15, 2009; Orig.)
UPDATED: (2-10-2010) Meridian Man Kills Baby, Himself
Nicholas Bacon's Facebook page shows a message posted the same day his wife, Lacy Bacon, filed for divorce:
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Days later, the 20-year-old shot his 8-month-old son, Bekm, and then turned the gun on himself at his west Meridian home Monday night. (IdahoStatesmen.Com; Meridian Man Kills Baby, Himself; Feb 10, 2010; Orig.)
UPDATED: (2-11-2010) Shooting victim did not suspect husband’s violence
But Ms. Murphy did not report this until after she was shot twice by Paul Murphy, 64, of Fall River, in a crowded restaurant late at night on Jan. 17. Mr. Murphy then shot himself in the head, killing himself. The couple reportedly lived in separate residences in Fall River and were going through a divorce. (EastBayRI.Com; Shooting Victim Did Not Suspect Husband's Violence; Jill Rodrigues; Feb 11, 2010; Orig.)
UPDATED: (2-16-2010) Murder-suicide on county courthouse steps in Gatesville
A woman and a man identified as a prison guard both died in a shooting late Monday afternoon on the steps of the Coryell County Courthouse in Gatesville.
Authorities said the man and the woman were arguing over child custody before the shooting. (KDFM.COM; Murder-Suicide on county courthouse steps in Gatesville; Scott Lawrence; Feb 16, 2010; Orig.)
UPDATED: (3-16-2010) Prosecutor: Man solicited friend to kill ex-girlfriend’s Darien family
Locked in a custody dispute with his ex-girlfriend over their infant son, Johnny Borizov is accused of convincing a friend to kill her and other family members in a murderous plot that left three dead in an upscale Darien neighborhood.
Authorities said the man and the woman were arguing over child custody before the shooting. (Chicago Press Release Services; Prosecutor: Man solicited friend to kill ex-girlfriend's Darien family; Christy Gutowski; Mar 6, 2010; Orig.)
UPDATED: (3-31-2010) Lansing Woman Shot by Husband had Filed for Divorce
Krystal Lynn Ohler remained in critical condition Tuesday at a local hospital after being shot Monday by her husband, Brian Michael Ohler.
She had recently filed for divorce.(Lansing State Journal; Lansing Woman Shot by Husband had Filed for Divorce; Christine Rook; Mar 31, 2010; Orig.)
UPDATED: (4-24-2010) Co-workers: Malott is a 'gentle giant'
Malott tearfully described his version of the events on March 9, when Rush sustained five bullet wounds to the chest, abdomen, shoulder and head and subsequently died. Malott told officers he was frustrated with the "riff-raff" with whom his former girlfriend was associating, adding she had broken an agreement they made regarding their living arrangement.
(The Paper of Montgomery County; Co-workers: Malott is a 'gentle giant'; Andrea Thomas; Apr 24, 2010; Orig.)